Ashish Jain asked:
So finally you have made the decision to tie a knot with your beloved, to turn your relationship into a descent matrimonial fixture. But to caution you, there are many other important things and decisions still remaining. So gear up and start planning for your big day.
These days, weddings have in a large way become an exorbitant affair, opulent in every way. So planning and budgeting becomes a prerequisite. So final decision of how your wedding should be planned, the moolah factor has to say it all.
To plan your wedding properly, with equal weight being given to all the sections of your marriage, it is important for you to prepare a comprehensive checklist. If you want a smooth running of all your wedding processes, planning a wedding checklist is an essential task. Once you sit down to writing, you will realize that there are loads of stuff to care about, which you might have forgotten in the excitement of your wedding.
To start with the wedding planning checklist, first plan the date of your wedding. This the most important thing to consider. Select a date and a day that is the most suitable to almost everybody. After this, the next important thing that should come in your checklist is the location and then the time of that special day. Remember to discuss all these things with your partner so that it remains the choice of both of you.
By following a step by step planning format, you can make the things easier. This also makes easier for you to take care of the food and the lodging factors in one go. Because, with weddings it is always advisable to plan everything in advance. You should never keep things for the last day. For having a wonderful wedding experience, there is only one mantra. And that talks of careful and advance planning.
The various other things that you need to write on your wedding planning checklist are the name of your partner, the location where you intend to hold your ceremony, a wedding cake, marriage license, a bouquet and last but not the least a ring. All these are the important and vital elements for a memorable wedding ceremony.
So, a wedding planning checklist should have all the wedding essentials. Any overlooked crucial thing, can ruin the whole atmosphere of your wedding. Making a checklist provides you with a comfortable and an efficient way to plan your wedding, thus making your ceremony a memorable lifetime experience.
LANGLEY
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BTB2211 asked:
My experience with this site has told me that one of the most hated things when it comes to weddings is when a couple has a cash bar.
Now I am asking this purely hypothetically (my wedding will have drinks included with package), but why do most people hate having to pay for drinks at a wedding?
I do think it is polite not to have to pay for drinks, but then again, what if the couple were on a tight budget and the food cost enough and they couldn’t stretch it for drinks?
I was just wondering everyone’s views on this so please share your opnions.
P.S I won’t be giving any thumbs down as I don’t think there is any right or wrong answer, just want to know what people think.
FORMAN
Me asked:
What is their minimum budget amount? And how much do they charge? I don’t want to hold a consultation with one just for her to say she does’t do 5,000 weddings. I have the venue and caterer picked out that I love and got at a steal!
I am concerned about getting a wedding planner and her punk ass going over anyway. I know I will not do that with myself. I’m a stickler for numbers and a minimalist.
I am in San Antonio, TX.
Perhaps I’ll just look into someone who can coordinate things the day of the wedding only.
WOOTEN
Kacy Carr asked:
Wedding plans have you made yours yet. Are you to be a spring bride, if so then you need to get things rolling “now” to avoid any last minute hiccups that could spoil your wedding day? You need to be “organized,” if not, then “prepared” being the more appropriate word to use for the worst happening. When making wedding plans keep in mind that “two heads are better than one.” Having someone at your side along way can help tremendously in the way of coming up with ideas and to help lighten the load. This can be a stressful time for the future bride, however by knowing the things you want and how to go about getting them will have you avoid hours of bridal mayhem. Make sure to involve your future husband with all wedding plans so he has the opportunity to contribute or have his say.
It doesn`t matter how precise you are you can bet something will go belly up on the day. Even the wedding experts can get it wrong sometimes. It only takes the slightest little thing to spoil what may have taken you a year or two to plan, if not longer. Typical mishaps like forgetting to inform the chauffeur where the church service is to be held or mislaying the wedding rings are a couple to mention. If you finalize particular wedding tasks early enough then you`re half way there in having a mishap carefree day.
Drawing up a wedding-to-do-list should be your top priority. Put a date in your diary to meet up with them who you have allotted a particular wedding duty to carry out. Keep these meetings regular so you know where you`re up to with the wedding tasks. What`s been accomplished can be ticked off your wedding-to-do-list. The more ticks there is the fewer headaches. Duties for wedding helpers might include ordering the flowers, baking the wedding cake, sending out invitations down to booking the minister for the wedding ceremony. Let the happiest day of your life stay that way by planning ahead.
The content bride will always look the prettiest on the day more than that of a miserable looking bride.
By highlighting some vital wedding issues will help you get yourself in order to achieve the perfect wedding. If you experience difficulty in planning your wedding, then in all due respect it maybe down to you that is making it difficult. You need to relax and take time out to think and not rush.
There are a lot of steps you will need to take when planning a wedding but taking one step at a time is the answer. Taking too much on at once can cause problems and cause you unnecessary stress. When planning a wedding, you need to make detail planning of the program. Let us begin with the wedding reception, some couples dedicate more of their time to this part of their wedding than any other part of the wedding events. You need to make sure that the venue hall is an ideal size for accommodating all your guests. Estimating the number of guests coming at this stage is not good, it is best to have exact numbers if it is a sit down meal because you could end up spending over the odds. Planning the reception should have you include and allow for the catering, decorations and entertainment.
Involve yourself with the catering and by doing this you get to check the menu with your caterer and change things as you go along. Wedding entertainment like hiring a disco DJ or live band is fabulous for getting people in the mood for dancing.
If you have to much on your plate and have no time to involve yourself with the catering then you will need to get a final head count for any meals to be served concerning your wedding to your caterer. This count should include the wedding photographer and coordinator as well as your wedding entertainment members, such as the DJ, muscians or singers.
When planning a wedding it is favourable to have wedding favors. The more unique the wedding favour the more it excites the guest. Send wedding invitations early so your guest will have time to prepare themselves for your special day. Your guest may have book a day off work, buy a new outfit or arrange for a baby sitter so it is important to send wedding invites at least 12 weeks in advance.
Wedding tips
1 Whether your hair stylist is calling to your home or you are to visit the hair salon, remember to wear loose clothing especially round the neck. After your hair has be styled in the fashion you want you don`t want to spoil it when removing any garments. A blouse is more ideal with a button down front.
2 If the bridal gown is designed for going over the head then place a pillow case or petticoat over first to prevent any lipstick/mascara smudges getting on the dress. It will also allow the dress to glide over the head without tossing your hair.
3 Don`t forget to remove the price tags from the soles off the shoes. This is easily overlooked and can go unnoticed; however not by the people in the church.
4 We all know children are easily bored and “will” get up to mischief at the drop of hat so if possible for the bridal dressing have a separate room for the kiddies to play and an adult to keep them in check. If the flower girls/bridesmaids are of toddler age – dress them last.
5 Keep beverages (coffee tea blackcurrant juice) at a distance if the wedding dress is fitted. Assist young children when thirsty by guiding the drinking cup to their mouth. Spillage is a spoiler.
6 Call the best man on the morning of your wedding day to make sure the groom did arrived home safe from the night before (stag do,) and at the same time ask him if he has the wedding bands. Men have been known to walk up the aisle without socks so keep this in mind.
7 The man`s buttonhole is traditionally worn on the left lapel, of course personal preference prevails. Have someone help the men pin their buttonholes because it is nothing new to see a beautiful displayed corsage – displayed upside down.
8 Don`t write your speech down on a scrap of paper because it`s easy to think it rubbish and gets thrown out. Nerves can have you say things that people may not want to hear so be careful with choice of words. Read your speech back as many times as it takes for you to be satisfied.
Wedding reminders for the to-do-list
Wedding ceremony location
Wedding programs, pew bows, chapel flowers, unity and taper candles
Marriage license and the officiate fees.
Useful pieces to have at your side – scotch tape for the gift table, a guest book and pen.
Have a basket for placing money envelopes in.
Don`t forget the silver knife for cutting the wedding cake
Glasses for the wedding toast.
Have a medical/emergency kit close by which should contain, make up and hair spray along with personal feminine items if needed. Other bits are Q-tips, facial tissues, aspirin or Tylenol. The list is endless so you could find yourself packing a case instead of a box. You need to know when to stop, mind you what about a nail file and clear nail polish, a stapler and safety pins, “see what I mean,” oh and spare panty hose.
Why not make your special day special for everyone else too. You can do this by giving your guests a unique wedding favor.
Wedding favors are given as a way to say “Thank You” to the wedding guests, – and if the perfect favor is given then you will have very thankful guests.
Wedding favors Ideas
Cookies and Chocolates
Crystal
Guest books
Glass coasters
Photo Album
Silver Items
Bath sets
Unity candles
Check on your wedding plans regular to avoid last minute hiccups.
Should a problem rise on your wedding day then meet it head on with plan B.? You do have one don`t you. It is in your best interest to have back up. For instance if the photographer gets stuck in a traffic jam, then have a camcorder in the car. If the caterer has faulted and burnt the wedding breakfast, then have a pizza house number on your personal, or if the groom doesn`t turn up then settle for the better man i.e. “best” man. All joking aside it is important to have your standby props.
REYNOLDS
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QuestionBride asked:
I’m on a budget and both my mother and my fiances mother thinks balloons and crepe paper streamers are fine for a wedding. I will be having flowers for my center pieces. Do you think those thing make weddings look cheesy? Any other ideas on low cost decorations?
POND
ME asked:
Where are the cheapest all inclusive places to go, not including mexico because I do not want to go there. I would really prefer the carribean, africa, or europe. My top choices are Morocco, Jamaica, Italy, Spain, and Ireland. Of those which would be the cheapest place go and how could I lower the costs. My budget is 10,000 dollars for me, my bf, my parents and my brother. His family will be paying for their portion of the trip
GRECO
Paul Thomas asked:
Wedding planning, do you actually need it? Before you stand in front of the minister, there are thousands of things to get done. There are to be made decisions concerning wedding favors, wedding rings, wedding invitations and wedding accessories. And what about your honeymoon? Where should you travel to? Before anything else you most start out with getting your wedding invitations send I good time before the wedding takes place. You can find information about wedding invitations online, both concerning layout and wording.
You got to think planning. Try a search on the internet for wedding planning. You can find information in abundance. Anything you need is to find: wedding flowers, wedding music, wedding photographers, etc.
You need to make a very detailed wedding plan because if the right things are not done on the right moment you will get sidetracked and loose control. Get the wedding process down on paper step by step and stay on top of the situation. With a plan in your hand you can relax and even enjoy the preparation for your grand wedding day.
If you own a bridal notebook you can keep track of your process from start to finish. Begin your wedding planning several months before the actual wedding to make sure you got time to correct any mistakes that can happen. The first important step is to get those wedding invitations send. Always think ahead. For example: if you have ordered your wedding invitations at some shop, it can take longer to receive them than you think.
If you are forced to make wedding planning on a budget, and need to save money on your shopping. You might consider making your own wedding invitations, maybe even make the wedding flowers yourself, and cut back on expectation to where your wedding party is held. The great thing about doing those things yourself is that your wedding will get a more personal touch, which you can not buy. Great idea if you want a unique and special wedding.
Wedding planning is the most important step to stay on track from start to finish. Do not be nonchalant about the wedding planning issue. Make sure your special day will be perfect.
Thank you for your time.
SEELEY
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Ultimate Beach Weddings asked:
The best weddings are made in Florida and nothing can compare with Miami weddings. So if you want the best Miami weddings that make a lifelong impression on your guests and your loved one, Miami weddings are the closest you can have to a perfect wedding.
Miami weddings can be a traditional wedding or beach wedding but most wedding planners will recommend a beach wedding for that added touch and class to make your big day truly romantic. There are many beautiful beaches in the "Sunshine State" of Florida but Miami weddings are the best.
It is advisable for would-be couples to avail of the services of a wedding planner. For the bride, this is big load off her shoulders because there are so many things to do that she might end up tired on her wedding day. Besides, wedding planners are professionals who had planned many weddings before and are not likely to overlook something.
Their services include planning your wedding from the budget to the actual ceremony itself to planning the reception afterwards. You can ask them to plan your honeymoon too within Miami itself since they know the environs very well like the best beach condo units and the best in fine dining in the evenings. They can also recommend which concerts are available in the evenings for a romantic touch.
Florida beach weddings are getting more popular each day and most prefer Miami weddings especially during this coming spring break. The weather is usually cooperative around this time of the year and a beach wedding is ideal for that outdoors ambiance which your guests will surely appreciate.
Miami is a known tourist spot so it can get crowded at times but there are secluded areas where Miami weddings can held in relative privacy, away from the prying tourist crowd. In fact, some Miami weddings are held in an ancient Spanish monastery recently restored and renovated at great cost. That should provide the perfect backdrop for those very special and unforgettable Miami weddings.
Miami weddings planned properly can provide most brides with that once-in-a-lifetime chance to enjoy and celebrate the most-awaited day of their lives in total rejoicing and happiness. Nothing can duplicate Miami weddings when it comes to that perfectly romantic matrimonial event.
Wherever you are right now, plan your Miami weddings with the help of wedding planners and you can even choose your favorite spot anywhere in South Beach or other less crowded areas of Miami. You will be guaranteed a lifetime of memories that will last forever even up to your retirement years.
LIGON
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